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Incredible Melting Man, The (1977)
IMDB rating: 2.80
Plot: Astronaut exposed to cosmic rays outside of Saturn’s rings returns to Earth and begins to melt away. Escaping from the hospital, he wanders around the backwoods looking for human flesh to eat.
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Directors: Sachs William
Actors: Rebar Alex,DeBenning Burr,Healey Myron,Alldredge Michael,Wilson Lisle,Rodgers Stuart Edmond,Witney Chris,Max Edwin,Demme Jonathan,Claridge Westbrook,Sci-Fi,Horror,
How do you know what is right after an incredible night?
Last night I spent the night with a man that I can say I love. We each have been through relationships and have kept a friendship (we have a past with each other), but we are both single now. Last night he called and asked me to come spend the night with him. I was there. He moves me in ways I can’t explain. He even sang along to love songs he picked out in my ear. It made me melt. Troube is, is he is not "society’s" version of the best. He is from bad parts, hes a thug, he don’t work (but he takes care of business always, how I won’t detail), he probably would not be faithful. At the same time he takes care of me. He always has. He is tender, sweet and wonderful with me and I can put put aside his bad qualities for how I feel about him. He wants to be my man I think. I am torn. I’m a professional, opposite of him, but yet I am drawn in so many ways to him. He makes me feel loved and sexy and happy. Do I go with it or do I leave it be. I am at a loss.
Also I have been very apprehensive of him because of the life he lives. He knows that. He is trying so hard to be that one for me. He is making me go his way. I know he would be good to me. He would be as a man should be to his man. He still lives a life I can’t imagine. Is that ok? Should I say ok and go with my feelings or should I not?
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t have values or a conscience and who you would never be able to trust?
dutchyinfla | Jun 16, 2007
I, honestly don’t care. LOVE HIM! I dated a guy for 2 and a half years, he was a druggy a skater and I loved him to death. He broke my heart but those two and a half years were the most amazing times of my life. Do what your heart says, don’t let what society considers ‘the norm’ affect your decisions. I’m impressed that you found love in this day in age. Good luck and even thought I don’t know you, never met you, and never will, I love you because of how much you love this man. Sorry I’m getting all teary eyed because I’ve never read/heard of so much love.
Sabrina
sabrina23 | Jun 16, 2007
This part of your question is quite telling and provides all the answers you need - "hes a thug, he don’t work". ‘Nough said.
Ray J | Jun 16, 2007
dont go for it…u said it urself he probably wont be faithful. love shouldnt be one-sided. you said it yourself you have a past, maybe there’s a reason why it’s a past?
Shlane | Jun 16, 2007
Somethings gotta give.
Either you do one of three things:
1 - He starts slowly integrating into your world as you have into his or it won’t work, or
2 - You move to his area and live his life and professionally your a "different person from who you are professionally" and where you live, if you think he has too much ‘pride’ to live with you, tell him to get over it, its not about where you live, but being together, or
3 - it just won’t work, sorry. But, someones gotta give and take, and that means BOTH! Because if its just you, its not fair and if its just him, its not fair. By both learning more about the other, you integrate each other into each others lives. Pick and choose the best from both worlds and remember to enjoy each other, that’s what its about, NOT WHERE YOUR FROM! But where your going and who your going with!
And personally I doubt you’ll do better for a long while. However, if you think he will cheat on you, tell him that. That, that is your worry.
AdamKadmon | Jun 16, 2007
Only you can know the answers, you should know the answers on here.
kaneijim | Jun 16, 2007
It is a little hard to give you advice in this situation because you should always follow your heart. If he is that one special person that makes you happy, you love him and he loves you then it is evident that you should be together. But make sure before you make a decision that he is not going to break your heart. If he really wants to be with you and loves you then maybe he can change his ways and get a job and stop being a thug. I really hope that if he is "the one" for you, then you two can make it work. Good Luck!!
Nicole T | Jun 16, 2007
Well maybe you need to set down some rules under which you’ll do this.
You can work out a relationship contract, stating things by which he must abide, and you as well, in order for you both to work this out, because you’re from such different places.
So for example, you’d ask him to be employed, in return he would get to make a request. You can even write it down, and sign it, then just follow through.
Basically you have a lot of loose ends that can put strain on it. Instead of working that out while dating, considering working it out before dating. This way you’re helping a friend better himself, rather than trying to change your lover.
Also a big part is the trust, you need to talk this stuff through so you feel he’s honest with you, and he feels you’re honest with him. Otherwise there’s no trust, and no good foundation for the relationship.
Lui | Jun 16, 2007
I say be joyful for the time he wants to give you. Revel in it.
I also say do NOT move in together. Being in love does not mean that you have to be together every waking minute.
And, don’t pry into his business activities or any other men he might be seeing. Love the time you’re together.
Play safe.
hawaii.jake | Jun 16, 2007
I understand your feelings, as I was once in love with someone who had deep problems with drugs. After three years, I decided that I had to take the initiative and put an end to things, because it was obvious this person was not going to change; sporadic attempts do not constitute a real initiative.
The last time I spoke to them was on the telephone. I told them to say whatever they had to say to me because when I hung the phone up we would never speak again. I meant it and I kept my word. Even when I learned that they were on their deathbed(The lifestyle of drugs had finally caught up with them) I did not go to see them. I had made a clean separation and although I did send them flowers, I did not speak with them or visit them. I did not attend the funeral.
I know this seems rather cold, but in cases like this it is the only option. A person with these types of problems can be very charismatic, but they will never change for you. They will only drag you down with them. Cut them out of your life and the pain over the loss will fade. Believe me, you will be stronger for it.
~Jack
Jack B | Jun 16, 2007
Your synopsis is filled with contradictions. This does not sound like any kind of real love to me, just lustful compulsion. If you MUST be gay, perhaps you should find someone who leads a more conventional life, at least on the SURFACE!
shelley m | Jun 16, 2007
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